Bridal Showers, Bachelorettes & Why Photos Matter
Wedding season is full of excitement — and and let’s be honest, a lot of planning. In the middle of all the dress fittings and guest lists, you get to have some real fun: your bridal shower and bachelorette party. Let’s talk about what makes them different, when to plan them, and why having a photographer along for the ride is one of the best decisions you’ll make.
So, What’s the Difference?
Bridal Shower This one’s usually more relaxed. Think sweet decorations, brunch with your favourite people, gifts, games, and maybe a few happy tears. It’s often hosted by a family member or close friend, and brings together moms, aunts, cousins, and friends to celebrate you with love and sparkle.
Bachelorette Party This is your time to let loose. Whether it’s a spa day, wine tour, dance party, or weekend getaway, this one’s all about fun with your besties. It’s usually your close crew, and tends to be louder, sillier, and full of spontaneous joy.
When to Plan Each?
There’s no one rule, but bridal showers typically happen 1–3 months before the wedding. Bachelorette parties are usually a few weeks before — or even the weekend right before. You can even combine them into one awesome weekend. It’s your party!
Why Hire a Photographer?
These moments fly by. One minute you're popping champagne, the next you're laughing so hard your cheeks hurt. A photographer helps you remember every second — from tiny details to giant bursts of laughter. You deserve to be in the photos, not just taking them.
Island Bachelorette Ideas
Planning your bachelorette on Vancouver Island? You're in for a treat — there's something here for every kind of bride.
- 🍷 Winery day in Cowichan Valley – sip wine and snack on cheese.
- 🌊 Beach picnic – fairy lights, music, and golden hour magic.
- 🧖♀️ DIY spa night – robes, face masks, and bubbles.
- 💃 Club night in Victoria – dance your heart out after a cute photo walk.
- 🛶 Paddleboard or kayak trip – with seals, if you're lucky!
Let’s Make Magic
Your wedding season isn’t just about the ceremony — it’s about the people and moments along the way. Let’s capture the laughter, love, and joy of your pre-wedding celebrations together.
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